Let your excitement show.
So that means forgoing the fucking and instead getting to work on something a little more sensitive. That said — the tip of the clitoris is still definitely a magic sweet spot. The next step involves what actually makes her squirt. The simplest, most on-point metaphor for this was given to me by an instructor of Tibetan Tantra.
If you really want to give her the best orgasm ever, you will definitely her more pleasure than she has ever experienced before in her life. There was once a time when men could act like they didn't care about giving a woman an orgasm. Why did they get away with that? Fear of.
Keep in mind that intercourse alone cannot lead to an epic orgasm.
You can increase the oral intensity once in a while by flexing your tongue and leaning into her while you lick. Like any other sexual skill , all you can do to develop it is practice and repetition. Want to give a woman the best oral sex of her life? Play around the creases of the thighs and labia. Cunnilingus Mistakes to Avoid. Even if you're friend-zoned!
The female orgasm is one of the most elusive things in life. Why is it so damn hard?! And as difficult it is for us to deal with, I will confess that my heart does go out to you men and women, of course who are trying to give out orgasms. But let me break it down for you; women are complex creatures and our biggest sex organ is located right between our ears. Start by building her confidence and making sure she loves herself. So that means forgoing the Give her the best orgasm of her life and instead getting to work on something a little more sensitive. For now, at least.